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Hello loyal lovelies! If you missed our last post, we announced our exciting new adventure which is: We couldn’t be more pumped to share our news with you all and grow together! To make the transition easier for you, we are migrating our followers from this account (Love is a Paraphilia) to our new…

red shoes

She hated going to the grocery store in December. It was always crowded, people were rude and she would just rather be at home, doing anything else. Trying to find a way to make the chore less miserable she decided she would wear her favorite pink Ben Wa balls. The feeling of the balls stretching…

Oh holy night

  “Long lay the world in sin and error pining Till He appeared and the soul felt its worth A thrill of hope the weary world rejoices For yonder breaks a new glorious morn Fall on your knees”

Merry XXXmas

Someone is very, very happy with their Xmas present. That someone is me! We did it! We officially have our own site and we could not be more excited about sharing our adventures with you. Merry, merry Xmas from (Just typing it gets me all giddy!) 🖤🖤🖤

A party you’re not invited to

The high holy holiday for hedonists like us is New Year’s Eve. Sure, Thanksgiving is always a decadent romp in our House, and birthdays are a blast, but the last day of the year is our sexiest by far. Last year’s celebration was a whiskey-infused fetish night full of dozens of romantic BDSM activities. These…


  “We live on the leash of our senses.” Diane Ackerman     


“She was waiting for more than permission, since she already had permission. She was waiting for an order.”  ― Pauline Réage, Story of O    

A note from the editor: 12/21/2018

The Holidays are upon us and we’re getting festive here at Love. We’ve got a few announcements we’d like to share, but first, we’re having our office Xmas party tonight. So don’t be surprised if one or both of us get drunk and start live-streaming kinky sex acts on Twitter. After all, ’tis the season….

Everyday is Boob Day if you believe hard enough

It has come to my attention that I have been missing out on the #boobday tag on Fridays so I am dedicating an entire post to my favorite tit pics of 2018. Happy Boob Day to all and to all a good night. Cheers!


Everything was just about perfect. Until John and Sue moved in. They were middle aged and fairly attractive, so we were excited at the prospect of making new friends. Turns out that was all we had in common. They were sober, conservative Baptists, and like any good Baptist, they let us know immediately. Sue was…

Taking time for what’s important

  “It is by no means an irrational fancy that, in a future existence, we shall look upon what we think our present existence, as a dream.”  ― Edgar Allan Poe  

Cake vs Bottom

My partner and I smashed our first cake last weekend. It was an incredibly fun, sexy learning experience. It didn’t exactly go as we had planned, but I think that was kind of what I liked the most about it. We planned, we talked, we laughed a lot. It was a lovely bonding exercise. We…